now I will keep on struggling on in vain

What's your favorite social media platform?

Tue, 26 Jun 2018 23:50:59 +0200

Why, Of Course! It Is Tumblr Dot Com!

tomatomagica: shitmygaywifesays: shitmygaywifesays: I want to tell y’all a story about supporting...

Tue, 26 Jun 2018 23:43:18 +0200

shitmygaywifesays:

shitmygaywifesays:

I want to tell y’all a story about supporting and loving your partner, starring my amazing wife.

I’ve mentioned before that I had an eating disorder for many years, and though I consider myself “recovered” there are aspects of my disorder that I still struggle with today — being quite a bit heavier than my wife is one of them.

When my wife and I moved in together back when we were still girlfriends, I was at my skinniest. She used to pick me up all the time and lift me off the ground, and I’d laugh and kick out my legs ‘cause I was just delighted to have her holding me.

But I started gaining weight as I went through recovery, and where once we were pretty close in size, I began to get bigger. And bigger. And bigger. And she remained her naturally petite self. I began to almost dread when she’d try to pick me up, sure that this time she wouldn’t be able to get me off the ground.

But every time, even if I protested, she’d lift me up and say something like: “See, you’re not so big that I can’t lift you!”

And one time I just blurted out: “But someday I’m going to be so fat you won’t be able to.”

She looked me dead in the eye and said: “No you won’t. Because if that ever happens, I’ll start working out.”

It was the best possible thing she could have said to me, because she wasn’t saying I wasn’t going to get fat — neither of us knew that for sure. She was just saying that I was never going to be “too fat” for her.

And every time I worry about getting bigger, I remember that I’ll never be so big that she can’t lift me, because baby knows how much I love being held, and she’ll change her own habits to ensure that I never feel “too big” or “too heavy” because in her eyes I’ll never be “too” anything.

Anyway, there’s a moral to this story: Find yourself a partner who will never consider you an excess. You should never be “too much” to someone who loves you — too big, too loud, too passionate, too awkward, whatever your “too” happens to be. And even as you change and grow (in my case, literally), the right person will be there through the changes, to tell you that you’re always just right for them.

My strongwoman, the wind beneath my wings, the arms under my ass. 😍😍 😍

orangeyjuicy: jasmancer: jasmancer: Steve Rogers uses voice to text to send texts and formats them...

Tue, 26 Jun 2018 23:41:39 +0200

orangeyjuicy:

jasmancer:

jasmancer:

Steve Rogers uses voice to text to send texts and formats them like a telegram

HEY BUCK STOP SAM AND I ARE OUT SHOPPING STOP WANT US TO PICK UP SOME TAKEOUT STOP

Steve rogers fully understands that this is not the correct way to text. He just likes the absolute outrage it causes every time someone receives a text from him and wants to see how many times he can make the same people explain texting to him until they realize. Sam is currently at 14 times, beating out tony who’s at nine. Twice now shuri has facetimed him after reading bucky’s texts. He’s also managed to convince thor that this is the Earth Way to text and it’s great

❤️

Tue, 26 Jun 2018 23:38:42 +0200

Just keep the good Gay song rep coming ! And the cute dogs ! I’m so glad we began this conversation, and I’m so glad it began on such a positive notes as cute dogs ! I see her feel bad and I just really hope everything will feel lighter soon for her, I genuinely want her to be happy 💜

❤️

Tue, 26 Jun 2018 23:32:29 +0200

She’s such a great friend ! She’s super king and tries her best to understand even people who confront her, and she’s so strong she doesn’t even realise it !! I’m so glad I met her on here

❤

Tue, 26 Jun 2018 23:31:27 +0200

They’re really cool and honestly a great venting partner. I love that they’re interested in so many different things, and seem so enthusiastic in their tags, and I learn small stuff about East Asian culture thanks to them !

❤️

Tue, 26 Jun 2018 23:29:49 +0200

She’s always so kind ! She tries her best to make everyone feel happy and she writes some really cute fanfic and shares great linguistic content !

1homosexual:send me a ❤️ and I’ll make a nice vague abt someone

Tue, 26 Jun 2018 22:00:36 +0200

1homosexual:

send me a ❤️ and I’ll make a nice vague abt someone

official-morrissey: florky: systern32: vanillafaceman: dapu...

Tue, 26 Jun 2018 21:59:44 +0200

official-morrissey:

florky:

systern32:

vanillafaceman:

dapu ftnk

skelior: Also I just remembered it was national selfie day...

Tue, 26 Jun 2018 21:58:38 +0200

skelior:

Also I just remembered it was national selfie day yesterday. YEET
🌿

Ideal number of teeth?

Tue, 26 Jun 2018 21:16:33 +0200

as many as i can get my hands on

asundergrowth: yellowjuice: e-wifey: people understand that Spanish speakers speak different...

Tue, 26 Jun 2018 21:15:39 +0200

asundergrowth:

yellowjuice:

e-wifey:

people understand that Spanish speakers speak different dialects of the Spanish language but don’t understand that black people speak a dialect of the English language

saw a variation of this conversation on twitter earlier

Linguistically AAVE is so interesting. It has rules from romance languages applied to the Germanic parts of English, so you get stuff like the intensive habitual tense and the prepatory tense.

Its literally optimized English.

sprachtraeume: niche memes for specific teens

Tue, 26 Jun 2018 21:14:28 +0200

sprachtraeume:

niche memes for specific teens

thebibliosphere: imjustlo: thebibliosphere: Dystopian novels: only the strong survive. Me reading...

Tue, 26 Jun 2018 21:09:08 +0200

thebibliosphere:

imjustlo:

thebibliosphere:

Dystopian novels: only the strong survive.

Me reading dystopian fiction growing up and internalizing the message in the narrative: there’s no place for me in this world, I’d be dead the moment the regime took hold. I’m not strong enough. I couldn’t stand the suffering. Maybe the narrative is right. Maybe only the strong survive.

Me now as an adult getting ready to rip the pin from the grenade with my teeth and brandishing a molotov cocktail in the other hand: IF I GO DOWN I’M TAKING YOU MOTHER FUCKERS WITH ME, BRING IT ON IF YOU THINK YOUR HARD ENOUGH. YOU THINK YOU’RE SCARY? MY IMMUNE SYSTEM IS EATING ITSELF AND I HAVE NOTHING TO LOSE. COME GET SOME

I 100% implore you to give me all the criticisms you come up with for my novels when you get them

my one requirement is you phrase them exactly like this every time :P

You got yourself a deal.

blackgrlsaremagic: @therealericabalma

Tue, 26 Jun 2018 19:45:55 +0200

blackgrlsaremagic:

@therealericabalma

Photo

Tue, 26 Jun 2018 19:44:54 +0200

Photo

Tue, 26 Jun 2018 19:40:51 +0200

s-shutup-its-not-like-i-actually: quirkysinger: monteswisha: A...

Tue, 26 Jun 2018 19:39:46 +0200

s-shutup-its-not-like-i-actually:

quirkysinger:

monteswisha:

A bird in the hand is worth a thousand words

thats not a birb thats a boomerang

*birberang

hannysds: I don’t know why this image exists but it does and we...

Tue, 26 Jun 2018 19:37:18 +0200

hannysds:

I don’t know why this image exists but it does and we just have to deal with it

Video

Tue, 26 Jun 2018 19:36:21 +0200